<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366</id><updated>2012-02-16T08:42:35.813-05:00</updated><category term='dominance'/><category term='education'/><category term='hormones'/><category term='control'/><category term='domination'/><category term='support'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='connection'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='purpose'/><category term='courage'/><category term='boys'/><category term='african-american'/><category term='manhood'/><category term='dometic abuse'/><category term='leadership'/><category term='war'/><category term='mothers'/><category term='dying'/><category term='blessings'/><category term='army'/><category term='muslim'/><category term='wealth'/><category term='survey'/><category term='girls'/><category term='handsomeness'/><category term='sexual assault'/><category term='globalwarming'/><category term='self-esteem'/><category term='campaign 2008'/><category term='transgender GLBT'/><category term='performance'/><category term='celebration'/><category term='ambition'/><category term='males'/><category term='sexism'/><category term='women'/><category term='peace'/><category term='feminism'/><category term='liberation'/><category term='rape'/><category term='oppression'/><category term='violence'/><category term='ritual'/><category term='patriarchy'/><category term='respect'/><category term='masculinity'/><category term='homelessness'/><category term='gender'/><category term='men'/><category term='aggression'/><category term='Caribbean'/><category term='fluency'/><category term='race'/><category term='expressiveness'/><title type='text'>OBRM -- other &amp; beyond 'real men'</title><subtitle type='html'>the promise of liberation other and beyond conventional masculinity</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>52</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-731572688873276624</id><published>2010-03-04T18:35:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-04T18:45:44.095-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dometic abuse'/><title type='text'>Open Letter to An American Woman</title><summary type='text'>by Kevin Powell Photos of Kevinan excerpt from Kevin Powell's 10th and latest book, "Open Letters to America" (Soft Skull). The regular thread in my conversations with women who are domestic violence survivors is their low self-esteem, a feeling that this man, this male partner, somehow validates their lives, their being, even as this partner seeks to control or end their lives. When we talk </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.kevinpowell.net/KP_OLTA_WomenEssay.pdf' title='Open Letter to An American Woman'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/731572688873276624/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2010/03/open-letter-to-american-woman.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/731572688873276624'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/731572688873276624'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2010/03/open-letter-to-american-woman.html' title='Open Letter to An American Woman'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-8395651420281990045</id><published>2009-11-15T10:38:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T11:17:03.587-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hormones'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dominance'/><title type='text'>male (but not female) testosterone fluctuates in response to winning or losing dominance contests</title><summary type='text'>Researchers at Duke University and the University of Michigan examined the testosterone levels of students around the time of the 2008 presidential election. Men who voted for John McCain exhibited significant decreases in testosterone upon learning that he lost, whereas the testosterone levels of men who supported Barack Obama were stable. This effect remained even after controlling for </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2009/11/15/flattery_will_get_you_somewhere/' title='male (but not female) testosterone fluctuates in response to winning or losing dominance contests'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/8395651420281990045/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/11/male-but-not-female-testosterone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8395651420281990045'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8395651420281990045'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/11/male-but-not-female-testosterone.html' title='male (but not female) testosterone fluctuates in response to winning or losing dominance contests'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-1065220602415515308</id><published>2009-10-04T08:49:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-04T08:54:38.235-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self-esteem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='aggression'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><title type='text'>She’s just not that into it</title><summary type='text'>by Kevin Lewis  |  October 4, 2009  | The Boston GlobeIt goes without saying that men are aggressive. But that’s exactly the problem, according to psychologists. They asked men and women to imagine various conflict scenarios and found that men systematically overestimate the prevalence and social approval of aggression, even while having mixed feelings about it themselves. Moreover, men assumed </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2009/10/04/shes_just_not_that_into_it?mode=PF' title='She’s just not that into it'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/1065220602415515308/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/10/shes-just-not-that-into-it.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/1065220602415515308'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/1065220602415515308'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/10/shes-just-not-that-into-it.html' title='She’s just not that into it'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-57488815440614118</id><published>2009-09-27T11:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-09-27T11:36:54.231-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blessings'/><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>MAY I SUGGEST (lyrics)Copyright © Susan WernerMay I suggestMay I suggest to youMay I suggest this is the best part of your lifeMay I suggestThis time is blessed for youThis time is blessed and shining almost blinding brightJust turn your headAnd you'll begin to seeThe thousand reasons that were just beyond your sightThe reasons whyWhy I suggest to youWhy I suggest this is the best part of your </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/57488815440614118/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/09/may-i-suggest-lyrics-copyright-susan.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/57488815440614118'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/57488815440614118'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/09/may-i-suggest-lyrics-copyright-susan.html' title=''/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-7547492413577208407</id><published>2009-09-13T13:08:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-09-13T13:11:17.228-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='courage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='peace'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dying'/><title type='text'>Life Lessons From a Dying Friend</title><summary type='text'>8/31/09Dear Friends:As many of you know, back in September of 2003, I experienced a medically inexplicable "miracle" remission that lasted five years; a remission that enabled me to slow down and explore the Spiritual side of life. I trained and practiced Reiki healing, and strove, with mixed results, to become a less insufferably driven writer, teacher, partner and friend.Writing? In time, I </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.huffingtonpost.com/paul-loeb/life-lessons-from-a-dying_b_277299.html' title='Life Lessons From a Dying Friend'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/7547492413577208407/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/09/life-lessons-from-dying-friend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7547492413577208407'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7547492413577208407'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/09/life-lessons-from-dying-friend.html' title='Life Lessons From a Dying Friend'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-663945343018626840</id><published>2009-08-09T07:02:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-08-09T07:09:47.152-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='manhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexual assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='respect'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><title type='text'>Women at Risk</title><summary type='text'>by Bob Herbert, New York Times, 08 August 2009."I actually look good. I dress good, am clean-shaven, bathe, touch of cologne — yet 30 million women rejected me," wrote George Sodini in a blog that he kept while preparing for this week’s shooting in a Pennsylvania gym in which he killed three women, wounded nine others and then killed himself.We’ve seen this tragic ritual so often that it has the </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/08/opinion/08herbert.html?_r=1&amp;adxnnl=1&amp;ref=todayspaper&amp;adxnnlx=1249819259-EvVKMWgNZznEYXT62AQsrA' title='Women at Risk'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/663945343018626840/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/08/women-at-risk.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/663945343018626840'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/663945343018626840'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/08/women-at-risk.html' title='Women at Risk'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5571388654430794030</id><published>2009-08-03T06:15:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-08-03T06:19:04.738-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='connection'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship'/><title type='text'>He won’t open up? There’s a reason</title><summary type='text'>By Stephen Berman. Boston Globe, 3 August 2009.A COUPLE sits on a beach on a brilliant July day. They’ve just had a picnic lunch, and are in that hazy sweet space of watching the waves and the gulls, the passing sailboat, or, far out, the tanker. They feel close.The woman, wanting to feel even more close, asks: “What are you feeling, hon?’’Startled, the man blinks, glances at her, and not knowing</summary><link rel='related' href='http://tinyurl.com/nt4j8q' title='He won’t open up? There’s a reason'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5571388654430794030/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/08/he-wont-open-up-theres-reason.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5571388654430794030'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5571388654430794030'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/08/he-wont-open-up-theres-reason.html' title='He won’t open up? There’s a reason'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5204146507618646211</id><published>2009-06-16T10:14:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-07-09T20:45:08.420-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='performance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masculinity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><title type='text'>Men's Story Project Festival Trailer</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rzp1V13xyq4' title='Men&apos;s Story Project Festival Trailer'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5204146507618646211/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/06/mens-story-project.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5204146507618646211'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5204146507618646211'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/06/mens-story-project.html' title='Men&apos;s Story Project Festival Trailer'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-2808444239683376642</id><published>2009-05-16T08:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T08:56:38.490-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Men Speak Up</title><summary type='text'>Many MenSpeakUp from MenSpeakUp on Vimeo.</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.menspeakup.org/' title='Men Speak Up'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/2808444239683376642/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/05/men-speak-up.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2808444239683376642'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2808444239683376642'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/05/men-speak-up.html' title='Men Speak Up'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-2231065917206055</id><published>2009-04-17T19:54:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-17T20:00:04.648-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='war'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='army'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rape'/><title type='text'>Women at war face sexual violence</title><summary type='text'>In her new book, The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq, Helen Benedict examines the experience of female soldiers serving in the US military in Iraq and elsewhere.Here, in an article adapted from her book, she outlines the threat of sexual violence that women face from their fellow soldiers while on the frontline, and provides testimony from three of the women she </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/2231065917206055/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/04/women-at-war-face-sexual-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2231065917206055'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2231065917206055'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/04/women-at-war-face-sexual-violence.html' title='Women at war face sexual violence'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-591380456983620053</id><published>2009-03-30T21:26:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T21:42:51.726-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wealth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='education'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gender'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='handsomeness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ambition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='race'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fluency'/><title type='text'>Not even the most narcissistic self-made man...</title><summary type='text'>by Philippe Van ParijsOur race,gender, and citizenship,how educated and wealthy we are,how gifted in mathand how fluent in English,how handsomeand even how ambitious,are overwhelmingly a function of who our parents happened to beand of other equally arbitrary contingencies.Not even the most narcissistic self-made mancould think that he fixed the parental dicein advance of entering this world.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/591380456983620053/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/not-even-most-narcissistic-self-made.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/591380456983620053'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/591380456983620053'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/not-even-most-narcissistic-self-made.html' title='Not even the most narcissistic self-made man...'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3834458634062839864</id><published>2009-03-15T21:45:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-15T21:51:19.938-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masculinity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='survey'/><title type='text'>Body Image Survey</title><summary type='text'>We are looking for men willing to participate in an online study examining male perspectives on their bodies. If you are female, please forward this email to your male friends who may beinterested in participating.If you are male, please consider completing the survey by clicking the following link:http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=VtQSTf2VygnuWamQIZXDBg_3d_3dYour participation is voluntary, </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=VtQSTf2VygnuWamQIZXDBg_3d_3d' title='Body Image Survey'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3834458634062839864/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/body-image-survey.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3834458634062839864'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3834458634062839864'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/body-image-survey.html' title='Body Image Survey'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3230203250456940093</id><published>2009-03-15T20:58:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-15T21:02:37.190-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='african-american'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mothers'/><title type='text'>for aunt cathy</title><summary type='text'>by Kevin Powell life ain't never been promised to nobodythat's what grandma lottie used  to sayand youher youngest daughterand youngest of six  childrensnuck into the cityon a greyhound buswith my motherand  scraped the side of a boarding house for good luckas your life stretched  beyondthe wooden shacksand cotton fieldsand the sandy school room  floors of south carolina and you were aliveat </summary><link rel='related' href='http://akilaworksongs.bm23.com/public/?q=preview_message&amp;fn=Link&amp;t=1&amp;ssid=9561&amp;id=bexobqyevy34ssen8irt248rn1t1y&amp;id2=flswsyaygeys7i350tr9k2a21nmjs' title='for aunt cathy'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3230203250456940093/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/for-aunt-cathy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3230203250456940093'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3230203250456940093'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/for-aunt-cathy.html' title='for aunt cathy'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/Sb2zKV1vSgI/AAAAAAAAAEI/iznzaGsGeu0/s72-c/kevin-powell-blog.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-693036681843051625</id><published>2009-03-11T12:53:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-15T21:14:01.718-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='globalwarming'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='oppression'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminism'/><title type='text'>Feminism's challenge: Articulating alternatives to unsustainable hierarchies</title><summary type='text'>by Robert Jensen   “What is the most important challenge facing women in the 21st century, and why?”    That one isn’t easy for anyone to answer, especially in 300 words or less. But that was the assignment from editors of the University of Texas’ web site for faculty members contributing to the “Many Voices of Feminism” collection, which is online at http://www.utexas.edu/features/2009/03/09/</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/693036681843051625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/feminisms-challenge-articulating.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/693036681843051625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/693036681843051625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/feminisms-challenge-articulating.html' title='Feminism&apos;s challenge: Articulating alternatives to unsustainable hierarchies'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/Sbf-m79TJlI/AAAAAAAAAD8/CNryJRlD6Jk/s72-c/robert+jensen.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-7320990980301116651</id><published>2009-03-10T07:56:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T08:01:02.064-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='liberation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Caribbean'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masculinity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminism'/><title type='text'>Free to be…feminist</title><summary type='text'>by Andil Gosine One of the best-kept secrets about feminism is this: women’s liberation is good for men.   We have heard a great deal about how much greater equality between men and women improves the lives of women, but we have heard not so much about what this means for men—leaving us with the wrong impression that if women gain, men lose. Feminism sets out to liberate men, as it does women.  </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.stabroeknews.com/2009/news/local/02/24/free-to-be%e2%80%a6feminist/' title='Free to be…feminist'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/7320990980301116651/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/free-to-befeminist.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7320990980301116651'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7320990980301116651'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/free-to-befeminist.html' title='Free to be…feminist'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-819861677613558016</id><published>2009-03-06T21:40:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-06T22:47:16.532-05:00</updated><title type='text'>from Doreen Boyd</title><summary type='text'>Woman Power Point - Doreen BoydView more presentations from Ecumenical  Women.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/819861677613558016/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/woman.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/819861677613558016'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/819861677613558016'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/03/woman.html' title='from Doreen Boyd'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3787909054461868953</id><published>2009-02-28T09:18:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-28T11:06:52.135-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Where have all the 'real' men gone?</title><summary type='text'>[I am parking this op-ed from The Boston Globe here until I have time to comment on it.  Meanwhile, maybe someone else would like to comment on it.  Send me your comments: otherbeyond(at)gmail.com]Where have all the 'real' men gone?by Jay Atkinson, The Boston Globe, 28 February 2009IN ITS PUERILE, lowest-common-denominator way, Hollywood has always reflected society. The movies "Taken," starring </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3787909054461868953/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/where-have-all-real-men-gone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3787909054461868953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3787909054461868953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/where-have-all-real-men-gone.html' title='Where have all the &apos;real&apos; men gone?'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-8439991627248156036</id><published>2009-02-21T23:24:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-21T23:34:13.612-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexual assault'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><title type='text'>Sexual Assault Against Boys in New Hampshire - survey report</title><summary type='text'>The New Hampshire Violence Against Men Survey found that 4.9% of men have been sexually assaulted, including 3.7% of all respondents whose sexual assaults included penetration. This represents approximately 25,000 New Hampshire men who have been sexually assaulted, more than twice as many as it would take to fill the Verizon Wireless Arena in Manchester.  These sexual assault rates are higher </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.unh.edu/news/docs/VAMReport.pdf' title='Sexual Assault Against Boys in New Hampshire - survey report'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/8439991627248156036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/sexual-assault-against-boys-in-new.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8439991627248156036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8439991627248156036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/sexual-assault-against-boys-in-new.html' title='Sexual Assault Against Boys in New Hampshire - survey report'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-4901135597092618838</id><published>2009-02-21T11:59:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-21T12:04:52.116-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What to make of the problem of control when we consider sexuality?</title><summary type='text'>I was reading a footnote by anthropologist Karen McCarthy Brown to effect that “In American culture... we work hard to control our sexuality...”  [Brown, Mama Lola, pg. 376]  This got me to thinking about how I have previously identified the conventional masculine attachment to control as a key issue for men to address in moving beyond conventional behaviors and identity.What to make of the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/4901135597092618838/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-to-make-of-problem-of-control-when.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4901135597092618838'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4901135597092618838'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-to-make-of-problem-of-control-when.html' title='What to make of the problem of control when we consider sexuality?'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5214621065434824918</id><published>2009-02-19T16:05:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-09T21:23:45.609-05:00</updated><title type='text'>OBRM is now on Twitter</title><summary type='text'>follow us to male liberation other and beyond conventional masculinity</summary><link rel='related' href='http://twitter.com/otherbeyond' title='OBRM is now on Twitter'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5214621065434824918/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/obrm-is-now-on-twitter.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5214621065434824918'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5214621065434824918'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/obrm-is-now-on-twitter.html' title='OBRM is now on Twitter'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-7409771880143310824</id><published>2009-02-19T13:52:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-19T14:03:02.876-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='muslim'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dometic abuse'/><title type='text'>The murder of a Pakistani-American woman forces us to confront uncomfortable truths about the prevalence of domestic violence</title><summary type='text'>A wake-up call for the communityby Wajahat Aliguardian.co.uk, Thursday 19 February 2009  The brutal beheading of Aasiya Hassan, a Muslim Pakistani-American mother of four, will finally force a community to confront and remedy the overwhelming – but frequently ignored and intentionally hidden – demon of domestic violence that has persecuted its silenced women for far too long.The entire world </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/belief/2009/feb/18/beheading-domestic-violence-aasiya-hassan/print' title='The murder of a Pakistani-American woman forces us to confront uncomfortable truths about the prevalence of domestic violence'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/7409771880143310824/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/murder-of-pakistani-american-woman.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7409771880143310824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7409771880143310824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/murder-of-pakistani-american-woman.html' title='The murder of a Pakistani-American woman forces us to confront uncomfortable truths about the prevalence of domestic violence'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SZ2sYbpqVtI/AAAAAAAAACE/WWKN2uetgP0/s72-c/wajahatali.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-7002347478447636364</id><published>2009-02-19T10:05:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-19T10:10:35.264-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transgender GLBT'/><title type='text'>The word "tranny"</title><summary type='text'>by Gunner Scott I have noticed that the word "tranny" has been being used by progressive organizations and people to describe transgender people. I am not saying that these organizations are using the word as say Fox News or the Boston Herald, that is in a derogatory manner, but that said, tranny is an insider term. It is still consider an offensive term by many in the transgender community, much</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.facebook.com/inbox/readmessage.php?t=1012147832908#/note.php?note_id=63551376843&amp;ref=mf' title='The word &quot;tranny&quot;'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/7002347478447636364/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/word-tranny.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7002347478447636364'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/7002347478447636364'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/word-tranny.html' title='The word &quot;tranny&quot;'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SZ12NhjVufI/AAAAAAAAAB8/vcCA4pPJgg0/s72-c/gunnerscott.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3067542036687122439</id><published>2009-02-12T12:14:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-12T12:17:39.519-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Rihanna/Chris Brown: Ending Violence Against Women and Girls (The Remix)</title><summary type='text'>By Kevin PowellWriter's note:Given all the hype and controversy around Chris Brown's alleged beating of Rihanna, I feel compelled to post this essay I originally wrote in late 2007, so that some of us can have an honest jump off point to discuss male violence against females, to discuss the need for ownership of past pains and traumas, to discuss the critical importance of therapy and healing. </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kevin-powell/rihannachris-brown-ending_b_166367.html' title='Rihanna/Chris Brown: Ending Violence Against Women and Girls (The Remix)'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3067542036687122439/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/rihannachris-brown-ending-violence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3067542036687122439'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3067542036687122439'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/rihannachris-brown-ending-violence.html' title='Rihanna/Chris Brown: Ending Violence Against Women and Girls (The Remix)'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5415132163052250299</id><published>2009-02-11T23:24:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-11T23:26:49.260-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Violence Against Men in New Hampshire</title><summary type='text'>Nearly three out of every four men in New Hampshire experience sexual or physical violence in their lifetime, a rate that exceeds the national average, according to the results of the first ever New Hampshire Violence Against Men survey. The report finds most of these experiences, particularly sexual assault, happened before the victims turned 18 years old.The results of the survey were released </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.unh.edu/news/docs/VAMReport.pdf' title='Violence Against Men in New Hampshire'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5415132163052250299/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/violence-against-men-in-new-hampshire.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5415132163052250299'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5415132163052250299'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/violence-against-men-in-new-hampshire.html' title='Violence Against Men in New Hampshire'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3456001531386087254</id><published>2009-02-11T12:10:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-11T12:20:02.363-05:00</updated><title type='text'>"Fidelity" from the Courage Campaign</title><summary type='text'>"Fidelity": Don't Divorce... from Courage Campaign on Vimeo.</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce' title='&quot;Fidelity&quot; from the Courage Campaign'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3456001531386087254/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/fidelity-from-courage-campaign.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3456001531386087254'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3456001531386087254'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/02/fidelity-from-courage-campaign.html' title='&quot;Fidelity&quot; from the Courage Campaign'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-4504423847597158966</id><published>2009-01-30T08:12:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-30T08:15:40.966-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape</title><summary type='text'>Last evening I went to an event sponsored by the Center for New Words, Cambridge, MA where Jaclyn Friedman, Toni Amato, and Kate Harding read from the anthology "Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape" --http://www.amazon.com/Yes-Means-Visions-Female-Without/dp/1580052576From the reactions of the large, mostly youthful, crowd I would guess this will be a </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Yes-Means-Visions-Female-Without/dp/1580052576' title='Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/4504423847597158966/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/01/yes-means-yes-visions-of-female-sexual.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4504423847597158966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4504423847597158966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2009/01/yes-means-yes-visions-of-female-sexual.html' title='Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SYL9VO6FPQI/AAAAAAAAAB0/YE-pH1t9Ya0/s72-c/ymy.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-6654884486217612759</id><published>2008-03-31T18:36:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-31T18:49:21.802-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='support'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ritual'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminism'/><title type='text'>Notes on Feminist Leadership</title><summary type='text'>by Charles Knight, 31 March 2008These are some aspects and common themes of feminist leadership that I recognize from a few years of practice. I have compiled these here from a quick survey of literature:1. Awareness of self as part of a larger whole -- both in the present moment and through generations and cultural legacy. Attention to history (ancestry). Greater attention to interconnectedness </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.comw.org/obrm/fulltext/NotesonFeministLeadership.pdf' title='Notes on Feminist Leadership'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/6654884486217612759/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/03/notes-on-feminist-leadership.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/6654884486217612759'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/6654884486217612759'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/03/notes-on-feminist-leadership.html' title='Notes on Feminist Leadership'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5273305490099408775</id><published>2008-03-19T22:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-19T22:32:20.678-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Son2Mother</title><summary type='text'>Son2MotherBy Kevin  Powell Mother, have I  told youThat you are the first womanI ever fell in love with, that  whatI’ve always wanted in life is to hearYou say you love me,  too?That is why, ma, it has takenMe so long to write this  poem.For how could I, aGrown man, put words to paperIf I am that  little boyCowering beneath the power ofThat slap, the swing of that  belt,Or the slash and burn of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5273305490099408775/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/03/son2mother.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5273305490099408775'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5273305490099408775'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/03/son2mother.html' title='Son2Mother'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-270786069008149133</id><published>2008-02-17T17:57:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-17T17:59:05.913-05:00</updated><title type='text'>YouTube - "How Do We Beat the Bitch" Extended Version</title><summary type='text'>Sexism still runs deep in American politics - YouTube - "How Do We Beat the Bitch" Extended Version</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLQGWpRVA7o&amp;feature=related' title='YouTube - &quot;How Do We Beat the Bitch&quot; Extended Version'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/270786069008149133/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/youtube-how-do-we-beat-bitch-extended.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/270786069008149133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/270786069008149133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/youtube-how-do-we-beat-bitch-extended.html' title='YouTube - &quot;How Do We Beat the Bitch&quot; Extended Version'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-446533082076011045</id><published>2008-02-13T08:16:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-13T08:20:40.862-05:00</updated><title type='text'>OBRM Select</title><summary type='text'>interesting post and discussion from Dangerous Intersection: "I am not a woman. Are you?"</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/446533082076011045/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/i-am-not-woman-are-you-dangerous.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/446533082076011045'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/446533082076011045'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/i-am-not-woman-are-you-dangerous.html' title='OBRM Select'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3189185428420881559</id><published>2008-02-12T08:34:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-12T08:39:36.491-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Slow Sex: Moving Toward Informed Pleasure</title><summary type='text'>by Ann J. SimontonThis is an interesting essay.  Check it out: http://www.commondreams.org/archive/2008/02/09/6943/Here is a couple of excerpts:Our culture promotes the idea that young “beautiful” females who spread in Playboy or strip their way through college represent empowered, enviable role models. Men and boys experience a separate difficulty. In Men and Sex, author Ron Levant defines </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.commondreams.org/archive/2008/02/09/6943/' title='Slow Sex: Moving Toward Informed Pleasure'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3189185428420881559/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/slow-sex-moving-toward-informed.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3189185428420881559'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3189185428420881559'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/slow-sex-moving-toward-informed.html' title='Slow Sex: Moving Toward Informed Pleasure'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-4530570226030640270</id><published>2008-02-10T21:42:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-10T21:53:41.835-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patriarchy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='campaign 2008'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminism'/><title type='text'>Goodbye To All That (#2)</title><summary type='text'>               by Robin Morgan  February 2,  2008 "Goodbye To All  That" was my (in)famous 1970 essay breaking free from a politics of  accommodation especially affecting women (for an online version, see http://blog.fair-use.org/category/chicago/). During my  decades in civil-rights, anti-war, and contemporary women’s movements, I’ve  avoided writing another specific “Goodbye . . ..” But not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/4530570226030640270/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/goodbye-to-all-that-2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4530570226030640270'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4530570226030640270'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/goodbye-to-all-that-2.html' title='Goodbye To All That (#2)'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3006596639769381350</id><published>2008-02-07T19:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-07T19:25:43.310-05:00</updated><title type='text'>OBRM Select</title><summary type='text'>Ain't I a feminist? -- from TPM Cafe</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3006596639769381350/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/omrm-select-from-tpm-cafe-aint-i.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3006596639769381350'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3006596639769381350'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/omrm-select-from-tpm-cafe-aint-i.html' title='OBRM Select'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-2943146125737591571</id><published>2008-02-01T21:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-07T19:21:11.898-05:00</updated><title type='text'>boxing goes beyond - a touching moment</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='related' href='http://img352.imageshack.us/img352/3100/381096257lbn2.gif' title='boxing goes beyond - a touching moment'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/2943146125737591571/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/381096257lbn2gif-gif-image-90x90-pixels.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2943146125737591571'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2943146125737591571'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/02/381096257lbn2gif-gif-image-90x90-pixels.html' title='boxing goes beyond - a touching moment'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-8956927717955880902</id><published>2008-01-28T23:23:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-07T19:17:22.469-05:00</updated><title type='text'>OBRM select</title><summary type='text'>XY: men, masculinities, and gender politicsauthor - ecarmona[1/26/2008 10:02 AM]Men Growing Up to be Boys -- In These Timesauthor - lenadances[1/22/2008 10:30 PM] POSTCOLONIAL MASCULINITIESauthor - l1nks[1/25/2008 10:23 AM]</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/8956927717955880902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/01/obrm-select.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8956927717955880902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8956927717955880902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2008/01/obrm-select.html' title='OBRM select'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-4086050564734233050</id><published>2007-10-31T20:33:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T12:14:32.772-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexism'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='control'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='girls'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><title type='text'>Ending Violence Against Women and Girls</title><summary type='text'>by Kevin PowellIn my recent travels and political and community work and speeches around the country, it became so very obvious that many American males are unaware of the monumental problem of domestic violence in our nation. Since October just ended and was Domestic Violence Awareness Month, this seems as good a time as any to address this urgent and overlooked issue. Why is it that so few of </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kevin-powell/ending-violence-against-w_b_70585.html' title='Ending Violence Against Women and Girls'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/4086050564734233050/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/10/ending-violence-against-women-and-girls.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4086050564734233050'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/4086050564734233050'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/10/ending-violence-against-women-and-girls.html' title='Ending Violence Against Women and Girls'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/RqLGBNTUoAI/AAAAAAAAAAU/uAgnN9Zx39g/s72-c/kevin-powell-blog.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3836493163861603636</id><published>2007-09-21T02:44:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T12:13:25.070-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vulnerability'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='homelessness'/><title type='text'>Dorothy Allison and the illusion of control</title><summary type='text'>About a year ago I wrote this about other &amp; beyond males:They would work to accept the existential vulnerability of their corporal life in a world of uncertainty. By accepting vulnerability they would give up the illusion of control which drives so much of the will to dominate.If I should get any credit for contributing a useful idea to the feminist project it may be contained in those two </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3836493163861603636/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/09/dorothy-allison-and-illusion-of-control.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3836493163861603636'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3836493163861603636'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/09/dorothy-allison-and-illusion-of-control.html' title='Dorothy Allison and the illusion of control'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-1685632947457241861</id><published>2007-07-31T11:04:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-24T07:47:54.162-05:00</updated><title type='text'>the creative power of heresy</title><summary type='text'>This I Believe essay by Guy Lancaster</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.thisibelieve.org/dsp_ShowEssay.php?lastname=Lancaster&amp;city=Little%20Rock&amp;state=AR&amp;uid=30137&amp;yval=0&amp;start=0' title='the creative power of heresy'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/1685632947457241861/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/creative-power-of-heresy.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/1685632947457241861'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/1685632947457241861'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/creative-power-of-heresy.html' title='the creative power of heresy'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-8543713951544733599</id><published>2007-07-30T19:22:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-07-30T19:33:32.383-05:00</updated><title type='text'>We are the quiet heroes -- a tribute to good men everywhere</title><summary type='text'>Martin Firrell has created two extraordinary pieces of "public art" on the necessary redefinition of  male heroics.  Highly recommended!http://www.martinfirrell.com/supersecretthingy.htmlhttp://www.martinfirrell.com/supersecretthingy2.5.html</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/8543713951544733599/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/we-are-quiet-heroes-tribute-to-good-men.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8543713951544733599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/8543713951544733599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/we-are-quiet-heroes-tribute-to-good-men.html' title='We are the quiet heroes -- a tribute to good men everywhere'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp3.blogger.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/Rq6Ba9TUoBI/AAAAAAAAAAc/xrSi9zPiJDY/s72-c/Nathan-Hero.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3173646654690004224</id><published>2007-07-30T19:08:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-07-30T19:19:12.003-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The Liberating Masculinities Writers Syndicate</title><summary type='text'>Blog buddy Sassywho has posted my letter about the Liberating Masculinities Writers Syndicate that Kevin Powell and I will launch this fall.  Her blog posts with the letter are on I Never Leave the House Without Incident and on Feministe.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3173646654690004224/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/liberating-masculinities-writers.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3173646654690004224'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3173646654690004224'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/liberating-masculinities-writers.html' title='The Liberating Masculinities Writers Syndicate'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3466412399546514469</id><published>2007-07-21T21:40:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T12:15:47.686-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patriarchy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='african-american'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexism'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masculinity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='males'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminism'/><title type='text'>Exploring Black Masculinity</title><summary type='text'>Kevin Powell talks to NPR's Farai Chideya about "Black and Male in America" and the need to create spaces in which males can talk with each other about creating better relationships and communities. Five minute interview on 15 June 2007.http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=11262522</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=11262522' title='Exploring Black Masculinity'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3466412399546514469/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/exploring-black-masculinity.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3466412399546514469'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3466412399546514469'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/07/exploring-black-masculinity.html' title='Exploring Black Masculinity'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/RqLGBNTUoAI/AAAAAAAAAAU/uAgnN9Zx39g/s72-c/kevin-powell-blog.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-5034685137808022403</id><published>2007-06-30T09:15:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-30T09:28:14.708-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Recommended Resource: a bibliography on Constructing the Black Masculine Identity</title><summary type='text'>Constructing the Black Masculine IdentityCompiled by Thomas WeissingerAfro-Americana Library Unit at the University of Illinois at Urbana-ChampaignBeavers, Herman. "‘The Cool Pose’: Intersectionality, Masculinity, and Quiescence in the Comedy and Films of Richard Pryor and Eddie Murphy."  Stecopoulos, and Michael Uebel, eds. Race and the Subject of Masculinities. Durham, NC: Duke University Press</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.library.uiuc.edu/afx/Masculinity.htm' title='Recommended Resource: a bibliography on Constructing the Black Masculine Identity'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/5034685137808022403/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/06/recommended-resource-bibliography-on.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5034685137808022403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/5034685137808022403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/06/recommended-resource-bibliography-on.html' title='Recommended Resource: a bibliography on Constructing the Black Masculine Identity'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-6385810665132110465</id><published>2007-06-12T05:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-12T05:30:28.511-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Black and Male in America</title><summary type='text'>Feminist blogger Sassywho writes:Other &amp; Beyond Real Men is sponsoring this  event [15-17 June, Brooklyn, NY] and I strongly encourage everyone who can to go. I've included the full schedule because it looks amazing, and the change that these men are committed to making in their communities is worth all of the support that we can give them. Please pass it on....</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.blackandmaleinamerica.org/' title='Black and Male in America'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/6385810665132110465/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/06/black-and-male-in-america.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/6385810665132110465'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/6385810665132110465'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/06/black-and-male-in-america.html' title='Black and Male in America'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-2763649555961225396</id><published>2007-05-18T19:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-05-18T19:47:49.503-05:00</updated><title type='text'>For Nodin upon his 13th birthday: a wish for a different sort of manhood</title><summary type='text'>For Nodin upon his 13th birthdayby Vivian TodiniAs you move into manhood...May your courage be in your words and deeds.May you keep yourself and others whom you love safe.May your trust be grounded in instinct and self-respect.May your fierceness be toward injustice.May your power be strengthened by sharing it with others.May diplomacy and thoughtful action be your sword.May your bravery be bold </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/2763649555961225396/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/05/for-nodin-upon-his-13th-birthday-wish.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2763649555961225396'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/2763649555961225396'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/05/for-nodin-upon-his-13th-birthday-wish.html' title='For Nodin upon his 13th birthday: a wish for a different sort of manhood'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-3974003049365943976</id><published>2007-05-04T22:08:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-05-19T10:27:54.252-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patriarchy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='expressiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masculinity'/><title type='text'>Normal Traumatization of Boys</title><summary type='text'>Terrance Real describes the indoctrination of boys into patriarchal thinking:When I first began looking at gender issues, I believed that violence was a by-product of boyhood socialization.  But after listening more closely to men and their families, I have come to believe that violence is boyhood socialization.  The way we "turn boys into men" is through injury:  We sever them from their mothers</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/3974003049365943976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/05/normal-traumatization-of-boys.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3974003049365943976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/3974003049365943976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2007/05/normal-traumatization-of-boys.html' title='Normal Traumatization of Boys'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116284680593396083</id><published>2006-11-06T15:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-28T02:54:13.653-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Buy this book for every man you care about</title><summary type='text'>This is an extraordinary book!  I urge you to buy copies for every man, young or old, in your life - family, friend, lover.  It can change their life for the better (and yours as well.)  It can start them on the way to finding love without domination.The book is The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks.  You can purchase copies at only $10 each here from Amazon.comSome </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116284680593396083/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/11/buy-this-book-for-every-man-you-care.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116284680593396083'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116284680593396083'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/11/buy-this-book-for-every-man-you-care.html' title='Buy this book for every man you care about'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116177330643892054</id><published>2006-10-25T05:23:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-04-01T19:31:41.400-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Your manhood can be revoked!</title><summary type='text'>The following are adapted excerpts from my "Tough Enough? Beyond the dominion of conventional masculinity in the politics of national security" -- a presentation to the Women in Public Policy weekly seminar, Kennedy School of Government, Harvard University, Cambridge, MA USA, 18 October 2005. These excerpts addresses the contingency of manhood, the social enforcement of conventionality, and how </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116177330643892054/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/your-manhood-can-be-revoked.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116177330643892054'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116177330643892054'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/your-manhood-can-be-revoked.html' title='Your manhood can be revoked!'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116100600071650364</id><published>2006-10-16T08:32:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-16T19:06:52.020-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sowing the Seeds of Fascism in Americaby Stan Goff</title><summary type='text'>Stan Goff has written this interesting essay on militarism, fascism, and masculinity -- Sowing the Seeds of Fascism in America.An excerpt: The film genre that most closely corresponds to a fascist mind-set is the male revenge fantasy, wherein after some offense is given that signifies the breakdown of order (usually resulting in the death or mortal imperilment of idealized wives or children) in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116100600071650364/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/sowing-seeds-of-fascism-in-americaby.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116100600071650364'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116100600071650364'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/sowing-seeds-of-fascism-in-americaby.html' title='Sowing the Seeds of Fascism in America&lt;br /&gt;by Stan Goff'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116088350226471884</id><published>2006-10-14T22:23:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-18T19:38:40.586-05:00</updated><title type='text'>a female-male alliance supports a profound shift in the culture of violence</title><summary type='text'>The following is excerpted from Security in the Great Transition by Charles Knight, published by the Tellus Institute, 2006.  It is an imagined history of 21st Century warfare and international security written from the perspective of a grateful historian in 2084.Few of the advancements in international security arrangements and in the demilitarization of nation states we enjoy today would have </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116088350226471884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/female-male-alliance-supports-profound.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116088350226471884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116088350226471884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/female-male-alliance-supports-profound.html' title='a female-male alliance supports a profound shift in the culture of violence'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116044697287463220</id><published>2006-10-09T20:58:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-18T19:32:18.866-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Jean Baker Miller - celebrating her life and work</title><summary type='text'>This past weekend I attended a memorial celebration of the life and work of Jean Baker Miller, one of the founding contributors to the branch of feminist psychotherapy and psychology known as Relational-Cultural Theory. She was also wife of a dear colleague of mine. I can attest that she was simply a wonderful human being and she will be deeply missed by those of us lucky enough to have known her</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116044697287463220/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/jean-baker-miller-celebrating-her-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116044697287463220'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116044697287463220'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/jean-baker-miller-celebrating-her-life.html' title='Jean Baker Miller - celebrating her life and work'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-116016586163299217</id><published>2006-10-06T15:11:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-09T21:24:56.190-05:00</updated><title type='text'>the other &amp; beyond male -- what's he like?</title><summary type='text'>The following is adapted from some exploratory writing I did earlier this year:A premise of my work on male gender identity and politics is that there is already some significant minority of males who reject (consciously or in their being in the world) the dominant male gender identity and role.  I ask:   around which characteristics and what behaviors might these males eventually discover each </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/116016586163299217/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/other-beyond-male-whats-he-like.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116016586163299217'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/116016586163299217'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/other-beyond-male-whats-he-like.html' title='the other &amp; beyond male -- what&apos;s he like?'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35438366.post-115991430637229966</id><published>2006-10-03T17:15:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-06T15:11:00.430-05:00</updated><title type='text'>of me (the editor) and this blog</title><summary type='text'>My feminist friends tell me that it is important to ‘locate’ myself when I write.  And blog culture is very conducive to writing about ‘me’, so for this first post on this new blog I will take the hint and tell you something about myself and why I am taking the trouble to create this blog.Professionally I work as a national security analyst.  I work for a ‘think tank’ and I spend about half my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/feeds/115991430637229966/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/of-me-editor-and-this-blog.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/115991430637229966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35438366/posts/default/115991430637229966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://otherbeyondrealmen.blogspot.com/2006/10/of-me-editor-and-this-blog.html' title='of me (the editor) and this blog'/><author><name>Charles Knight</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04207761200457874336</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='22' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2O_bhWcgIiM/SVE5M2szLxI/AAAAAAAAABU/IY-YEgs4YWI/S220/0711charlessmall.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
